Wednesday, October 22, 2003

I'm dreaming of ... early retirement

As the country-western song says, I'm "too old to die young."  The challenge of planning and having a meaningful retirement seems to have snuck up on me.  Bertrand Russell wrote that "to be able to fill leisure intelligently is the last product of civilization, and at present very few people have reached this level."  Although I don't think we have any more successfully completed this task now than when he wrote it in 1930, we are getting ready to try.  We Boomers are getting ready to indulge in a mass-retirement the likes of which the world has never seen.

This is our last chance to get it right.  We are the same generation who turned our children over to franchise daycare and let the passive, mindless entertainment of television suck up whatever energy was left after our two-career work week.  We've abandoned our religions, hometowns, and spouses at an alarming rate.  We've made divorce, single-parent homes, and only children commonplace.

I think that these could all be symptoms of one central problem - the inability to prioritize, to see the difference between things that are important and things that are merely urgent.  Walking the dog after work may be urgent, but having a valid will is important.  Yet the dog rarely goes unwalked, but few people I know have reasonably current wills.  Our lives are so full of urgent clutter that without a clear vision, one gets bogged down before ever getting to life's important tasks.

Will Rogers said,  "Half our life is spent trying to find something to do with the time we have rushed through life trying to save."  That was also written in 1930 -  maybe people turn more introspective in financially hard times.

I accept the challenge, "to explore strange new worlds, to seek out new life and new civilizations, to boldly go where no man has gone before."  Or die trying.

Tuesday, October 21, 2003

Books I recommend for writers

Our Texas home is two blocks from a Half-Price Books that keeps a great inventory of writing books.  I've built up a library of about a hundred and I love them all.  I'm currently looking for a copy of "Letters to a Fiction Writer" edited by Frederick Busch...

Thunder and Lightning by Natalie Goldberg

The First Five Pages by Noah Lukeman

The Plot Thickens by Noah Lukeman

The Writer's Journey by Christopher Vogler

Writing the Blockbuster Novel by Albert Zuckerman

On Becoming a Novelist by John Gardner

Setting by Jack M. Bickham

Stein on Writing  by Sol Stein

I Could Tell You Stories by Patricia Hampl (memoirs)

The Art & Craft of Novel Writing by Oakley Hall

Writing the Novel, from plot to print by Lawrence Block

Favorite Movies

                                                   TOP TEN

These movies are my comfort food, I never tire of seeing them.  If I am packing, cleaning (yeah, like that happens), magazine reading, sick in bed -- whatever -- I will frequently choose these from cable over something I have not seen already.

Big Chill

Rainman

Pretty Woman

Moonstruck

Mermaids

Michael

Nobody's Fool    (There's Richard Russo again!)

As Good as it Gets

Paint Your Wagon

Continental Divide

                                                   OTHER FAVORITES

City Slickers

Galaxy Quest  (I don't know if my love of this funny movie is because of my early exposure to sci-fi geeks)

Heart and Souls (a sentimental favorite because, like the flapping of butterfly wings in chaos theory, it changed my life) 

My 10 Favorite Books

Empire Falls by Richard Russo

Widow for One Year by John Irving

Cider House Rules by John Irving

Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan

Accidental Tourist by Anne Tyler

Once and Future King by T.H. White

Blue Highways by William Least Heat-Moon (non-fiction)

Gone with the Wind by Margaret Mitchell

Hawaii by James Michener

Lying on the Couch by Irwin Yalom

Hero with a Thousand Faces by Joseph Campbell (non-fiction)

OTHER FAVORITES

Particles and Luck by Louis B. Jones (a quirky slapstick for intellectals)

Fooled by Randomness by Nassim N Taleb (math philosophy?)

Positively Fifth Street by James McManus (fact-packed but great poker memoir)